Working with Dr Wendel

Working with Dr Wendel

Pre-Divorce & Relationships

The decision to end a relationship is one of the most significant you’ll ever make. But here’s what most people don’t realise: if you haven’t shifted your own energy first, you’ll carry the same patterns into whatever comes next.

High achievers often approach relationship challenges the same way they approach business — by analysing, planning and trying to solve the visible problems. But relationships aren’t transformed at the level of surface detail. They shift when you work at the deeper level where your beliefs, emotions, and unspoken patterns live.

Through The Paradigm Inversion Method, we turn the process around. Instead of starting with what’s wrong, we start with the energy of the relationship you want. The clarity, connection, respect or freedom you’re seeking. From there, we align your actions to match that state.

Sometimes, this reveals a new way forward together. Other times, it confirms that parting is the right choice — but either way, you’ll make the decision from certainty, not reaction.

Because when you approach a crossroads from your inner power, the path you choose becomes the right one.

Pre-Divorce & Relationships

The decision to end a relationship is one of the most significant you’ll ever make. But here’s what most people don’t realise: if you haven’t shifted your own energy first, you’ll carry the same patterns into whatever comes next.

High achievers often approach relationship challenges the same way they approach business — by analysing, planning and trying to solve the visible problems. But relationships aren’t transformed at the level of surface detail. They shift when you work at the deeper level where your beliefs, emotions, and unspoken patterns live.

Through The Paradigm Inversion Method, we turn the process around. Instead of starting with what’s wrong, we start with the energy of the relationship you want. The clarity, connection, respect or freedom you’re seeking. From there, we align your actions to match that state.

Sometimes, this reveals a new way forward together. Other times, it confirms that parting is the right choice — but either way, you’ll make the decision from certainty, not reaction.

Because when you approach a crossroads from your inner power, the path you choose becomes the right one.

"From breakdown to breakthrough: finding clarity, power, and love in the hardest chapter."

"From breakdown to breakthrough: finding clarity, power, and love in the hardest chapter."

Dr Wendel Noordzij

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author+

speaker+

quantum coach+

Activate
Your Inner Power

Pre-Divorce
& Relationships

3-Day Fasting
for Health

Menopause
Beyond HRT

Transformations - What People Are Saying

Transformations -
What People Are Saying

L.P.

Barrister, UK

“For me it really works that I know I can have a drink if I want, I love that I now listen to my body and realise that 99% of the time.... I just don't want one any more.

I highly recommend using Wendel... if you too, feel 'seen' by her online videos (I did) then take a punt and get in touch. It's absolutely worth it.”

CDD

Psychotherapist, Germany

“I came to Wendel in a time of crisis. I was burning out in my work. Despite my deep love and joy for what I knew was my calling, here I was feeling like I had nothing to give, like nothing I did was good enough and dare I say, I felt resentful!

On the recommendation of a colleague, I reached out to Wendel and booked in a session and I am SO glad I did. In a matter of minutes I was aware of my part in the issue but also how I was giving my power away by working too hard in order to facilitate other's healing.

Marina Bolton

SME Owner, UK

“Amazing results!

Just a brief review to say what a totally amazing experience I've had with Wendel helping me to cut my alcohol intake down massively and just have the odd glass of wine socially- I’m totally amazed myself! It’s been so easy! I have tried for many years and never really got off the starting block - I now seem to have very little interest in alcohol. Just a total

L. P.

Barrister, UK

“For me it really works that I know I can have a drink if I want, I love that I now listen to my body and realise that 99% of the time.... I just don't want one any more.

I highly recommend using Wendel... if you too, feel 'seen' by her online videos (I did) then take a punt and get in touch. It's absolutely worth it.”

CDD

Psychotherapist, Germany

“I came to Wendel in a time of crisis. I was burning out in my work. Despite my deep love and joy for what I knew was my calling, here I was feeling like I had nothing to give, like nothing I did was good enough and dare I say, I felt resentful!

On the recommendation of a colleague, I reached out to Wendel and booked in a session and I am SO glad I did. In a matter of minutes I was aware of my part in the issue but also how I was giving my power away by working too hard in order to facilitate other's healing.

Marina Bolton

SME Owner, UK

“Amazing results!

Just a brief review to say what a totally amazing experience I've had with Wendel helping me to cut my alcohol intake down massively and just have the odd glass of wine socially- I’m totally amazed myself! It’s been so easy! I have tried for many years and never really got off the starting block - I now seem to have very little interest in alcohol. Just a total

Ms LP

Barrister, UK

“For me it really works that I know I can have a drink if I want, I love that I now listen to my body and realise that 99% of the time.... I just don't want one any more.

I highly recommend using Wendel... if you too, feel 'seen' by her online videos (I did) then take a punt and get in touch. It's absolutely worth it.”

CDD

Psychotherapist, Germany

“I came to Wendel in a time of crisis. I was burning out in my work. Despite my deep love and joy for what I knew was my calling, here I was feeling like I had nothing to give, like nothing I did was good enough and dare I say, I felt resentful!

On the recommendation of a colleague, I reached out to Wendel and booked in a session and I am SO glad I did. In a matter of minutes I was aware of my part in the issue but also how I was giving my power away by working too hard in order to facilitate other's healing.

Marina Bolton

SME Owner, UK

“Amazing results!

Just a brief review to say what a totally amazing experience I've had with Wendel helping me to cut my alcohol intake down massively and just have the odd glass of wine socially- I’m totally amazed myself! It’s been so easy! I have tried for many years and never really got off the starting block - I now seem to have very little interest in alcohol. Just a total

Dr Sarah Renee Langley

Executive Coach & Business Owner, US

My name is Dr. Sarah Renee Langley, speaker, coach and author and I recommend Dr Wendel’s services. I was at a place of feeling very limited and very stuck until Wendel really helped me to transform and to be able to get unstuck and become limitless in my success in my life

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Theresa Elliott

Business Owner, US

You help me connect with myself in a way that facilitate understanding and love. Through our sessions, you have facilitated major breakthroughs.

Helen Buchanan

Business Owner, Australia

Absolutely phenomenal. Working with Dr Wendel was life changing and I keep the way that you did the process. I felt this most amazing really nice beautiful relaxing feeling come over me and it was it made me realise that I've been looking for something like this for ages to help me overcome

Dr Sarah Renee Langley

Executive Coach & Business Owner, US

My name is Dr. Sarah Renee Langley, speaker, coach and author and I recommend Dr Wendel’s services. I was at a place of feeling very limited and very stuck until Wendel really helped me to transform and to be able to get unstuck and become limitless in my success in my life

Theresa Elliott

Business Owner, US

You help me connect with myself in a way that facilitate understanding and love. Through our sessions, you have facilitated major breakthroughs.

Helen Buchanan

Business Owner, Australia

Absolutely phenomenal. Working with Dr Wendel was life changing and I keep the way that you did the process. I felt this most amazing really nice beautiful relaxing feeling come over me and it was it made me realise that I've been looking for something like this for ages to help me overcome

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In business and in life, your results mirror your state. Our group programmes bring together ambitious individuals ready to upgrade not just what they do, but who they are — unlocking the level of leadership, creativity, and impact they know is possible.

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When time is limited but change is essential, these standalone courses give you direct access to frameworks that cut through complexity and shift results fast. pace

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The Paradigm Inversion Method

By Doctor Wendel

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The Paradigm Inversion Method

by Doctor Wendel

Private Premium 1-to-1

A powerful space for deep transformation to dissolve what holds you back, and activate the truest expression of who you are — so you can live, love & lead from clarity and power.

Group Programs

In business and in life, your results mirror your state. Our group programmes bring together ambitious individuals ready to upgrade not just what they do, but who they are — unlocking the level of leadership, creativity, and impact they know is possible.

Online Stand-Alone

When time is limited but change is essential, these standalone courses give you direct access to frameworks that cut through complexity and shift results fast. pace

Retreats

Retreats designed for rare, life-changing transformation. Intimate, immersive and invitation-only. Each retreat is a complete reset for how you live, love, lead and create.

Mission

To bring positive

change to the World

By applying my paradigm inversion method, aligning quantum energy and frequencies, I help high performing people free themselves from the conditioning of life - opening the door to a new energy-first paradigm where they enjoy better relationships, better health, higher performance and more time.

Mission

Helping people transcend life’s limiting narratives

By applying my paradigm inversion method, aligning quantum energy and frequencies, I help high performing people free themselves from the conditioning of life - opening the door to a new energy-first paradigm where they enjoy better relationships, better health, higher performance and more time.

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